This year, Paige asked if she could plan her own birthday party.
Not just pick a themeāshe wanted full creative control. The snacks. The decor. The vibe. The glam. And I figured⦠why not? Give the girl the clipboard and see what happens.
Turns out, she might just have the party-planning gene I didnāt know I passed down.
And truthfully? This isnāt her first rodeo. Last year she created an entire Snack Shack party from scratchācomplete with menu boards and DIY food stations. It was such a hit that I knew she could handle it again.
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This year, her vision was all things Sephora: pink, preppy, glam, and snack-loaded.
Hereās how it all came together:
š The Cake That Deserves Its Own Spotlight
Paige wanted a pink, makeup-and-skincare-themed cakeāsomething girly, glam, and over-the-top fun. And Magic Box Cakery (@magicbox.cakery) absolutely delivered. She created the most perfect Sephora-style cake with a black-and-white shopping bag, pink tissue, and edible makeup details like lipsticks, brushes, palettes, nail polish, and more.
It was gorgeous, detailed, and honestlyāpeople didnāt believe it was real.

Cake of our dreams by Magic Box Cakery.
š The Grocery Store Takeover
We took a trip to Kroger to get all the party essentialsāand Paige was in charge. She picked the snacks (chips, candy, donuts), the drinks, the plates, and even the napkin designs. I just pushed the cart and tried to keep up.

Birthday girl on a mission.
š Dollar Tree Makeup Station = Tween Gold
One of Paigeās best ideas was setting up a full DIY makeup and skincare stationāon a budget. She hit the beauty aisle at Dollar Tree and found lip glosses, blush, highlighters, mini foundation bottles, sponges, nail polish, and even face masks.
The girls did blindfolded makeup challenges using eye masks and swapped roles doing each otherās makeup by feel alone. It was chaotic and absolutely hilarious.

$1 finds + tween creativity = success.
š¬ Candy Bar Heaven
Paige was very specific: she wanted a full candy bar with clear containers, scoops, and plastic cups for scooping. She picked out all the treats herselfāM&Ms, Sour Patch Kids, gummy worms, and our favorite: TruFru chocolate-covered strawberries and raspberries.
We lined it all up and let the girls go wild.

Welcome to the sugar station.

Sweet chaos in every scoop.
š§ Snacks, But Make It Pretty
Most kids just dump chips into a bowl. Paige lined them upāGoldfish, Lays, Doritos, Cheetosāin neat rows across the counter like she was prepping a snack display for a commercial shoot. I have to admit, it was oddly satisfying.

Chip curation by Paige.
š Chick-fil-A Always Wins
We kept dinner super simple and ordered a nugget tray from Chick-fil-A, plus waffle fries and sauces. Not a single person complainedāand definitely not a single nugget was left.

Elite birthday dinner move: Chick-fil-A everything.
š¬ Final Thoughts
Letting Paige take the reins on her birthday party was one of the best things weāve done. She had a vision, made a plan, and pulled it all together with just a little help behind the scenes.
Was it Pinterest-perfect? Maybe not.
Was it perfectly her? Absolutely.
Watching her light up as her ideas came to life was the real gift. And that cake? Itāll be talked about until next year.
š Huge thanks again to Magic Box Cakery for the most jaw-dropping Sephora-themed cake weāve ever seen. If you’re local and need a showstopper, sheās the one to call.

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